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The Farmer's Daughter Who Went to Town


The key to Donna Reed’s success since the 1940’s can be found in her character


Cast on the setTo that large slice of the populace addicted happily to The Donna Reed Show each Thursday night on ABC—and to those witness to most of her 40-odd movies—the name Donna Reed evokes a familiar and all-too-easily-accepted image. Good Wife (to a pediatrician, in the series), Good Mother, gentle, sweet-voiced and vaguely prim—that’s a Donna Reed.

Donna herself—originally Donna Mullenger, the farmer’s daughter from Iowa—dryly commented, “I hear ‘Donna Reed’ and I get a picture of a tall, chic, austere blonde, which isn’t me. I’ve never liked that name. It has a cold sound. Donna Reed.”

Hearing the name in her own slightly mocking voice, she wore the expression of one having just tasted something disagreeable. “For a while,” she said, “when the publicity department at MGM was renaming me, I was Donna Adams. I like that. But they heard about another Donna Adams somewhere, an actress. For a few hours one day I was Donna Drake. Then someone remembered an actress named Dona Drake and that ended that. So, I got stuck with—Donna Reed.”

Ill-fitting name or not, this slender, lively-eyed, extraordinarily well-featured actress has carved a reputation that can only be regarded enviously by her contemporaries who were also Hollywood fledglings in the early 1940’s.

Most of them have faded from the scene. The pretty faces that coyly smiled out from the barracks pin-ups, the Miss Fighter Squadrons and the Miss Bazookas—all, or nearly all, are only dimly remembered. Why did Donna Reed move ahead while the others dropped behind? “Let’s be realistic,” a long-time friend observed. “Donna was no prettier, no more talented than the other girls. But what she had was—here’s an old-fashioned word for an old-fashioned virtue—character.”

By any yardstick, personal and professional, Donna Reed is sitting pretty. Since 1945 she has been married to a wise, voluble mover and shaker named Tony Owen, a one-time newspaperman who knows the angles around the agency business and who has also produced movies.

Owen is now head man—and no mistake—behind Todon Productions (Tony and Donna abbreviated), under whose crest is produced The Donna Reed Show. (Donna’s first marriage, in 1943, to Hollywood makeup artist Bill Tuttle, ended in divorce after two years.) The Owens live happily and stylishly in Beverly Hills with their children: Penny, 15 this month; Tony Jr., 14; Tommy, 11; Mary Anne, 4 this month. The two eldest were adopted.

As to the professional side, The Donna Reed Show—now in its third season and buttoned down for next fall—has brought to its star pride and satisfaction on several levels. Looking at you with very candid hazel eyes, Donna sums up her philosophy: “I’m fed up to here with stories about kooky, amoral or sick women. Hollywood and Broadway haven’t always been so absorbed with these misfits. Greer Garson, Norma Shearer, Irene Dunne all played strong, unsick women. But with the producers today, it has to be ‘Butterfield 8.’ I just don’t believe the public wants a diet of these sick females.”


Miss Reed’s chin, viewed in the past as one more attractive part of a pleasantly assembled face, had never before seemed so full of determination, nor her tone so resolute. “Oh, I tackled this role with a vengeance,” she went on, sitting straight-backed at her makeup table. “We started breaking rules right and left. We had a female lead, for one thing, a strong, healthy woman. We had a story line told from a woman’s point of view that wasn’t soap opera. Then we broke the biggest rule of all. In Hollywood actresses would never play mothers until they were grandmothers in real life. There were even complaints that I looked too young.

“Well, there are plenty of women my age [her birthdate is listed as Jan. 27, 1921] who look no older than I do and they have teen-age children. In Hollywood it just wasn’t done. So we did it!”

The effrontery of the enterprise delighted her and she unloosed a full-throated laugh. “Another thing,” she said, still amused. “Playing Mrs. Stone in the series is comfortable. I wear clothes that fit. Even with all my girl-next-door roles in pictures there was always someone on the set who’d look me up and down and say, ‘Is that dress tight enough, honey?’ I was always so acutely aware of being glamorized.” She spoke without rancor, a bemused look in her eye. “Frankly, I don’t think people who go to the movies give a damn about revealing dresses.”

George Sidney, the movie producer who directed her original screen test, recalls seeing more on that occasion than wholesomeness or gentility. “Donna had—a quiet kind of sex,” muses Sidney, the turn of phrase having the ring of a movie title. “To me, Donna suggested an intriguing combination—ice and fire.”

The Donna Mullenger who found her way to a screen test at MGM was but two years out of the Iowa heartland—a shy, uneasy, withdrawn girl. Looking back, she said, “I was scared to death. They signed me for $75 a week but the only thought that spun around in my mind was, ‘I don’t want to marry an actor. I don’t want to marry an actor.’”

To dispel two myths in order, Donna wasn’t one among the carloads of cornfed beauty-contest winners perennially out to storm Hollywood. Driving an $80 jalopy she had ventured West with $60 in savings to live with an aunt and attend Los Angeles City College. “My family figured this was the cheapest way for me to get an education. Becoming an actress was a fluke.”

The second myth, and one solidly entrenched in the American psyche, romanticizes to a rosy glow the good life on the farm. “It may have been good training for life but we had rough times,” Donna recalled. The Mullenger farm, seven miles out of Denison, Iowa, had no indoor plumbing, to cite only one pressing inconvenience in the icy Iowa winters. For Donna, oldest of five children, there was water to be pumped and hauled into the house and there was bread to be baked and firewood to be cut. “My father and my brother were good farmers, but we never had enough land to make a profit,” Donna said, sadly. “Last year they gave up, finally, and turned the farm over to the Soil Bank. My father had worked that farm for 60 years, giving it all he had.”

After attending a one-room country school, Donna went to high school in Denison. In her third year she emerged partly out of her shell after reading a book suggested by chemistry teacher named Edward Tompkins (now a nuclear fall-out expert). The book? Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” Smiling, Donna said, “I mean, of all books! But it was just want I needed, at least in Denison.”

The big city of Los Angeles was another matter. For the first six months on the campus, the pretty but excessively shy coed went dateless. As a sophomore with hazy ambitions of becoming a teacher, she won a campus beauty contest, for which a prize was entrée to a movie casting director. “I remember this beautiful, wide-eyed, frightened child walking into my office,” says Billy Grady, for 30 years the head casting director at Metro. “I was struck by her look of—quality. Please underline that 89 times: quality.”

Her movie career, which progressed rapidly, Donna divides into “B.E.” and “A.E”—before and after “Eternity.” Until 1953 and “From Here to Eternity,” wherein she played Alma, the tramp who befriends Montgomery Clift, the bulk of her movie roles had been passive and dull. “Eternity” won her an Oscar. Even so, Donna found that the studios harbored an unconscionable resentment that she dared accept such a role in the first place, disrupting the image they had so carefully fostered. On that issue, Donna said, “The whole point about Alma was that she was a tramp who had to look like anything but. Anyway, all that winning the Oscar brought me was more bland ‘nice girl’ parts.”

In 1958, Donna entered TV full-blast with The Donna Reed Show, which wasn’t exactly an instantaneous hit. “How I overacted in those first episodes—my heavens!” she exclaimed. “I had plenty to learn. But now I’m happier playing Mrs. Stone than any part I ever had.”

It is a role—“wife” to Carl Betz and “mother” to Shelley Fabares and Paul Petersen—that obviously has drawn out hitherto unsuspected facets of her talent. Humor, for instance, was almost non-existent in her movie parts, but TV has made Donna an excellent if underrated comedienne. The 5-foot-4-inch, 115-pound star foresees one more season for the series and then she yearns for a high-protein dramatic role in a movie or—this spoken in a try-anything-once-mood—the stage.

For a husband and wife merging their efforts on one project, particularly a TV series, the road is strewn with pitfalls. “We approached the whole idea with misgivings,” Tony Owen was saying. “But it hasn’t hurt our marriage. Sure, we argue, but mainly because I think Donna’s perfectionism can be a drag. She could win five more Oscars and still be unsure of herself as an actress. Never mind that soft and pliable look, Donna has a mind of her own. And a good one.”

A classmate from City College days who has been her stand-in from the beginning, Frances Haldorn recalls Donna’s yielding to anger only two or three times on a set. Actually her outbursts are so rare that when she exploded at the petulance of a now-ex-director some time ago, the cast and crew referred to her for weeks afterward as “Tiger,” an unlikely nickname that delighted her.

“Donna,” an associate suggests, “has a whim of iron. Still, she has no star complex. She’s really nice, not just a ‘nice girl.’ But how she manages to keep such a healthy balance of her family and work relationships I don’t know. It’s almost frightening to see a woman with such serenity.”

Internally, however, Donna Reed lives in frequent combat with her doubts. “Everything an actress does is turned to self,” she noted one day, staring reflectively, almost somberly, into her dressing room mirror. “It’s always how I look—my hair, my eyes, my mouth. Self, self, self.

“On the set there’s so much taking from others, giving only to yourself. It’s hard to turn off when you go home. This feeling that you can go on taking—you have got to fight it. Marriage has to do with giving.”

She paused and half-closed her eyes. “I’ve watched too many women in Hollywood louse up their lives. Something within me—maybe it goes back to the farm in Iowa—something very deep within me keeps saying, ‘Be leery, Donna, be leery.’”

*article from TV Guide, May 6, 1961


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